A friend of mine just asked me recently about when is the time where you experience the hardest part in a relationship. I stared at him and asked why he has to ask me about it. He just answered that he wants to know, a thing or two from me…..to keep it short, I eventually gave in to his question.
In a relationship, nothing has been easy…….most stages of it has some difficulties encountered along the way.
For me, this is the hardest part…………
The hardest part is at the start of the relationship. True, you are able to get the coveted “YES” of the woman you desire and love the most. But you have to deal with the following: the past bf’s, which some of them are giving some hints of courting back: the present suitors, who still would continue courting despite knowing that she has already one, thinking that the foundation is not yet strong: and most of all, the topmost difficulty level, dealing with the present/ex-bf/would-not-agree-with-break-up, in cases of you stealing the you love from him (most controversial).
This stage usually happens in 5 months to a year. If you can fully have your partner get over them in that period….that’s what you call a great love life.
It’s no assurance though that you will end up long enough and eventually settle down. The important thing here is, despite you knowing of these complications, love the person with all your heart, unconditionally. Cherish every moments you have, most especially the very happy times. Not to forget also the misunderstandings that were settled, that allowed your relationship to get stronger.
Needed, is the time and chance to prove to your partner, that you are really are true to her, and have all the best of intentions for your relationship. Trust and Acceptance is important. And most of all, to LOVE HER with all your HEART, UNCONDITIONALLY.
The rewards that could come can make you both that happiest couple on Earth.
This is my stand….. c”,)
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