BY FEELINGS OR BY STANDARDS.................Re-blogged(from friendster blogs.......January 5, 2009(

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A World Apart................Re-blogged(from friendseter blogs.....Feb. 9, 2009)

Just my second blog. This is not actually mine, though. Just sharing the situation currently experienced by this very good friend of mine. His experience now might happen to me also, so, I opted to have it here with you.

The title of this blog might mislead you, coming to the impression that I’m referring to, well, two individuals separated by thousands of mile. Truth is, I’m actually referring to age gap. And according to our society, 10 to more years of gap is a big difference.

So what I am talking about? This friend of mine is very much in love with an 18 year old. Their gap is, 13 years. You could compute for his actual age. Coincidentally, that happens to be my age too.

Now here’s the concern. How can he say to this very smart, good natured, well mannered and beautiful lady that he is in love with her? How can he make it look like their age can just be ignored? More importantly, how can he make her fall in love with him, against all the odds that would come?

It’s definitely his concern. He already talked to me once about not pursuing her. His thought, that once he expresses of his dying love for her, she might consider him too old, and it hurt his feelings even by just thinking of it. He can’t accept the feeling of rejection. He thought of just loving her in silence, opting just to maintain his good friendship with him.

And yet, I told him once, are you really sure that it is also what she feels? I mean, his thinking of getting rejected, if ever he might tell her. It might be the opposite. We never had the power to read the minds and feelings of an individual. So, it might be the opposite. She might like him too. And might have special feelings also. Hhhhmmmm……….

What should be the right thing for him to do. Tell her of his true feelings, just keep it to himself, loving her in silence?………

A Complicated Love.............Re-blogged(from friendster blogs...April 6, 2009)

LOVE …… is always a complicated thing…………… you want to love, take care of the person you want most……….. and ………….. some things just don’t turn out the way you want it to be…………………..

For a very long time I have searched for the true happiness, the one that I have really desired. I’ve been with relationships, and I can feel something is missing……and despite having a commitment…i knew something is missing……

And then I was alone…………. for a very long time………………. and in those times…………… I was looking for a new love……… hoping to find what I was really looking……..

Then I found her …………………. not just my new love……………..but she has the missing piece to my questions of what it is……………………….. and it was then that I knew what it was……………. true acceptance of her, unexplained happiness in me, and most of all, I giving the full “UNCONDITIONAL LOVE” to her……………

I am so happy of finally finding her……………………….. until complications came…………

What can I do……………… just wait………………..decision is hers…………..

I hope to win this time……..and finally have the happiness………. but if I lose, by losing her …………… then………………. i am still in the darkness of failed love………….

The Hardest Part……….

A friend of mine just asked me recently about when is the time where you experience the hardest part in a relationship. I stared at him and asked why he has to ask me about it. He just answered that he wants to know, a thing or two from me…..to keep it short, I eventually gave in to his question.

In a relationship, nothing has been easy…….most stages of it has some difficulties encountered along the way.

For me, this is the hardest part…………

The hardest part is at the start of the relationship. True, you are able to get the coveted “YES” of the woman you desire and love the most. But you have to deal with the following: the past bf’s, which some of them are giving some hints of courting back: the present suitors, who still would continue courting despite knowing that she has already one, thinking that the foundation is not yet strong: and most of all, the topmost difficulty level, dealing with the present/ex-bf/would-not-agree-with-break-up, in cases of you stealing the you love from him (most controversial).

This stage usually happens in 5 months to a year. If you can fully have your partner get over them in that period….that’s what you call a great love life.

It’s no assurance though that you will end up long enough and eventually settle down. The important thing here is, despite you knowing of these complications, love the person with all your heart, unconditionally. Cherish every moments you have, most especially the very happy times. Not to forget also the misunderstandings that were settled, that allowed your relationship to get stronger.

Needed, is the time and chance to prove to your partner, that you are really are true to her, and have all the best of intentions for your relationship. Trust and Acceptance is important. And most of all, to LOVE HER with all your HEART, UNCONDITIONALLY.

The rewards that could come can make you both that happiest couple on Earth.

This is my stand….. c”,)

Do You Believe in Signs?...................Re-blogged(May 19, 2009)

I don’t……………I never did…….

Then somebody told me to believe in it………..most especially when you are asking guidance from questions……….

I asked for it……………… Three crosses from three different churches with green lighting, seen successive in a night………. to answer if she’s the one for me, and to be with me for the rest of my remaining time here on Earth………

I was answered….. on our way together into her province…………….

But its not true………………why?………………. she chose to stay with her previous love……………..

Never Give Up?.......(Reblogged, May 24, 2009)

Most of my friends asked me why did I gave up immediately on her…..According to them, it isn’t like me to give up immediately……………they told me I’ve never been a quitter………that I always do take my chances……….

True……….i never give up easily on anything……….

It’s just that, the damage that has been brought to me lately has really rooted deep inside……………its almost “total annihilation” of my feelings………….

I didn’t give up……………………i’m healing as of the moment…………… a wounded soldier can offer nothing in a war…………except more tragedies to come………… its better to take time off and prepare myself during healing moments

In time my wounds will heal………the scars may stay…………….but that is enough to fight back………………

I’m coming back…………….

Of Traveling, Gaming, Singing, Drinking……(Re-blogged, June 3, 2009)

When you’ve been badly beaten…..to your emotions………….finding ways to get over is the perfect remedy for everything………. c”,)

Travelling to the province is great………you get to witness the beauty of nature that surrounds on your way to your destination…………. the freshness of the air, the coolness of the wind, the greenish color of the surroundings……..plus talking to very simple people who live very simple lives………

Back in the city……………online games are best………..2 versus 2, 3 versus 3………….. feel the joy of winning…………………mocking to death ur defeated enemy…………..and whenyou’re beaten.play another game till they’re defeated…………….

Night time is perfect for video karaokes……..gang up with old friends……….sing songs……………and enjoy!

Drinking……………bad for ur liver!………….. hang-overs are a waste…….. still, the saddened and frustrating emotions can still be remembered………..drinking session again…………….and waste of money……